Welcome to the Listening in the Dark community
Who we are.
Listening in the Dark is a place to un-numb ourselves. A place to gather together because we miss unfiltered community, authenticity, and a sense of belonging to something that matters. We’re here together because we want to scroll through something that doesn’t make us compare and despair, because we want to feel close, connected, heard. We’re here because angry doesn’t even begin to describe it. Because social media doesn’t cut it. Because the world often feels broken, and we want more tools of joy in the process of fixing it.
What we do.
Free Subscriber benefits:
Essays, notes, and other writing: Subscribers of all levels can read and comment on our free roundups, behind-the-scenes content, past writing, and new essays. I’ll be writing about the things that matter most to me—and hopefully to you too—from U.S. politics to existential and cultural awakenings, to backstage looks inside my book tours and behind-the-scenes stories and pictures from film and TV sets.
Good Riddance: Join us in the Chat for a weekly space to let go of something that’s been bugging you. Every Saturday, I’ll share something I’m letting go of and invite you to do the same. It can be big or small, serious or silly—an interaction that left you feeling not so great, a piece of clothing you’ve been hanging on to for too long, or your anger over a tragically canceled TV show that ended on a cliffhanger. (Seeing this community support, laugh with, and inspire each other in the chat each week has quickly become one of my absolute favorite parts of the LITD newsletter.)
The Roundup: Every now and then I'll share a list of things I love (or hate) from the best and worst corners of the internet.
If you're interested in becoming a Paid Subscriber, you’ll get to enjoy additional content while directly supporting the work we do here and the community we're building at Listening in the Dark.
Paid Subscriber benefits include all free benefits, plus:
All Access: read, watch, and comment on all new and archived posts, from subscriber-only essays and writing prompts to archived video interviews.
The Short and Sweet: our brand new monthly gathering over Zoom where I’ll be hosting interviews, giveaways, community hangouts, writing workshops and more.
Given the results of the election and all that it’s brought up for so many of us, I’ve decided this month called for a second TSAS. Dr. Mindy Nettifee will once again be joining us, this time for a post-election degriefing, if you will. We’ll chat about the election and give some emotional marching orders for how to handle what might come next. Bring your journals, your big feelings, and your open hearts for the hard lessons ahead. Mark your calendars: Sunday, November 24th from 4pm-5pm ET. (The Zoom link will be emailed to paid subscribers thirty minutes before the Zoom.)
A bit about me.
If this is your first time getting to know me as a writer—well then, hello and welcome to the Listening in the Dark family. Here’s a little more about me and the LITD community we’ve been building together:
I’m a writer, director, and actress who’s been nominated for a bunch of fun awards like an Emmy, Golden Globe, and Independent Spirit Award. If you didn’t catch Y: The Last Man on Hulu where I play a wildly funny and dark conservative character named Kimberly Cunningham, I highly recommend it. It’s a fantastic show, and even though we only got one season, I’m incredibly proud of the work we got to do and the story we got to tell, thanks immensely to show creator (and my bestie), Eliza Clark.
I’m the author of seven books across genres including the poetry collection Dark Sparkler, the novel Any Man, and my most recent anthology Listening in the Dark: Women Reclaiming the Power of Intuition. I am also an opinion writer for the New York Times, and contributing writer for The Cut and The New Yorker on issues pertaining to gender inequality and women’s rage.
In 2016, I co-wrote and directed my first feature film, Paint It Black, based on the novel by Janet Fitch, and starring Alia Shawkat, Janet McTeer, and Alfred Molina. I’m really proud of this film about a twisted relationship between two women in the throes of grief and madness. It’s a wild, fun, heart-wrenching ride. (If you’re in the U.S., it’s available to stream on Apple TV+ and Amazon!)
The title of this newsletter comes from my most recent book mentioned above, an anthology titled Listening in the Dark: Women Reclaiming the Power of Intuition. The book features essays from powerhouse women across industries writing about their relationship to intuitive intelligence. Contributors to the book include Jia Tolentino, Amy Poehler, Dr. Mindy Nettifee, Jessica Valenti, Huma Abedin, and many more.
